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Alexander Lovell, PhD's avatar

Jay, this piece struck a deep chord within me. Your description of grappling with those 'frayed edges of the soul' – that's a feeling I know all too well. For years, I sought belonging in external validation, achievements, you name it. It's been a long road, but I'm learning, like you, that the real journey is inward. Your words are a comforting reminder that I'm not alone in this.

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Wild Lion*esses Pride from Jay's avatar

Dear Alexander,

Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. It means a lot to hear that my words resonated with you so deeply. The image of "grappling with those frayed edges of the soul" is a shared experience that often feels isolating, so knowing that it connected with you brings a sense of companionship to the journey.

Your openness about seeking belonging in external validation and achievements is something I deeply appreciate. It's a path that so many of us find ourselves on, sometimes without even realizing it. The courage to turn inward and embrace the complexities of that journey is no small feat. Your reflections remind me how connected we truly are in these experiences, even when they feel most solitary.

I’m grateful for this exchange — it serves as a powerful reminder that while our paths may be unique, they often parallel in the most meaningful ways. Wishing you strength and gentleness as you continue your own journey inward.

Warmly,

Jay

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