How choosing integrity and trusting my judgment create a path to authentic growth. Today's themes: Intention – Integrity. Affirmation – I trust my judgment and make good decisions.
I found myself nodding my head as I read this essay. What you've described matches my own journey of moving closer into and getting more and more connected to my authentic self in the past few years. This journey has shined the light of my own internal compass, the "tao" that I was born with and inherited from the intelligence of the Universe. Checking in with that internal compass has helped me make decisions that align with my intergrity, of which you wrote so eloquently in this article.
There were many times that I found myself caught in indecision due to the tough nature of meeting external expectations and holding onto my truth. Recently I found myself in an interesting situation where I had to decide if I wanted to apply for a leadership position at work which will allow me to build community based on DEI principles. I embrace this principle and have great ideas for how to build this community. However, I hesitated due to my own introvert tendencies and my mental health states which could become obstacles for my "performance." But I decided to go for it and in discussing my perceived obstacles with the current leader, got a most positive response that my introvert tendencies would not be an obstacle at all. In fact, she said that it's important to provide opportunities for quiet people to lead as a way to balance the predominant culture that rewards the loudest folks. This has led to a solution where I will be a co-chair and leading small and intimate gatherings while the chair will be the outward-facing leader speaking to a larger audience. I'm so glad that I summoned my vulnerability and presented myself in honesty based on what my inner voice was telling me. And I feel lucky to have the support of a thoughtful leader who extended the idea of inclusivity to communication and leadership style.
What an inspiring story, Lily! Your journey to align your decisions with your internal compass and integrity resonates so deeply. I love how you describe checking in with your "tao"—it’s such a beautiful way to frame the wisdom we carry within ourselves.
Your experience deciding to step into a leadership role while honoring your introverted nature and mental health is a testament to the power of vulnerability and authenticity. It’s incredible how a thoughtful leader recognized the value of quiet leadership, offering a solution that honors diverse communication and leadership styles.
Your story is a wonderful example of how inclusivity can extend beyond DEI principles to embrace the unique strengths and approaches of individuals. Thank you for sharing—it’s an inspiring reminder of the magic that happens when we listen to our inner voice and trust in collaborative solutions!
Many thanks for your inspiration and for holding the space for me to share my story. Indeed, my action flowed from my ongoing journey on the river of vulnerability and authenticity. I like how you put it this way: "magic that happens when we listen to our inner voice and trust in collaborative solutions!" This trust in the unknown after a life time of inhabiting hostile spaces was a big and scary step for me, but I'm so glad I took it!
Lily, thank you for sharing this reflection. It’s moving to hear how you’ve embraced trust and taken that courageous step after navigating such challenging spaces. Your journey is such a beautiful testament to the strength found in vulnerability and authenticity. I’m grateful to have read your story—it’s truly inspiring!
I found myself nodding my head as I read this essay. What you've described matches my own journey of moving closer into and getting more and more connected to my authentic self in the past few years. This journey has shined the light of my own internal compass, the "tao" that I was born with and inherited from the intelligence of the Universe. Checking in with that internal compass has helped me make decisions that align with my intergrity, of which you wrote so eloquently in this article.
There were many times that I found myself caught in indecision due to the tough nature of meeting external expectations and holding onto my truth. Recently I found myself in an interesting situation where I had to decide if I wanted to apply for a leadership position at work which will allow me to build community based on DEI principles. I embrace this principle and have great ideas for how to build this community. However, I hesitated due to my own introvert tendencies and my mental health states which could become obstacles for my "performance." But I decided to go for it and in discussing my perceived obstacles with the current leader, got a most positive response that my introvert tendencies would not be an obstacle at all. In fact, she said that it's important to provide opportunities for quiet people to lead as a way to balance the predominant culture that rewards the loudest folks. This has led to a solution where I will be a co-chair and leading small and intimate gatherings while the chair will be the outward-facing leader speaking to a larger audience. I'm so glad that I summoned my vulnerability and presented myself in honesty based on what my inner voice was telling me. And I feel lucky to have the support of a thoughtful leader who extended the idea of inclusivity to communication and leadership style.
What an inspiring story, Lily! Your journey to align your decisions with your internal compass and integrity resonates so deeply. I love how you describe checking in with your "tao"—it’s such a beautiful way to frame the wisdom we carry within ourselves.
Your experience deciding to step into a leadership role while honoring your introverted nature and mental health is a testament to the power of vulnerability and authenticity. It’s incredible how a thoughtful leader recognized the value of quiet leadership, offering a solution that honors diverse communication and leadership styles.
Your story is a wonderful example of how inclusivity can extend beyond DEI principles to embrace the unique strengths and approaches of individuals. Thank you for sharing—it’s an inspiring reminder of the magic that happens when we listen to our inner voice and trust in collaborative solutions!
Many thanks for your inspiration and for holding the space for me to share my story. Indeed, my action flowed from my ongoing journey on the river of vulnerability and authenticity. I like how you put it this way: "magic that happens when we listen to our inner voice and trust in collaborative solutions!" This trust in the unknown after a life time of inhabiting hostile spaces was a big and scary step for me, but I'm so glad I took it!
Lily, thank you for sharing this reflection. It’s moving to hear how you’ve embraced trust and taken that courageous step after navigating such challenging spaces. Your journey is such a beautiful testament to the strength found in vulnerability and authenticity. I’m grateful to have read your story—it’s truly inspiring!
Heartfelt thanks, Jay! I'm grateful for our inspired conversations that sparked deep reflections.
When I read your words, I see your courage and bravery shining through 🙏
I really appreciate these words. Thank You Emanuela. some days, it is tough.