The Canyon Within: Your Secret Map to Self-Reliance
Discover how trusting your inner river can transform your life's journey with today's intention 'self-reliance' and affirmation: 'I am guided by my intution'
Hey there, dearest Lionies,
Imagine standing on the edge of a vast canyon, its depths unfathomable, its expanse beyond measure. The sky above stretches endlessly, and within that canyon, a river flows—quietly, persistently, carving its way through rock and time. Now, imagine that river is your intuition, always present, always guiding, even when you cannot see its surface. Do you trust it to lead you? Or do you often seek the reassurance of a map handed to you by someone else?
For so long, I didn't recognize that river flowing through my Canyon. I wandered aimlessly, believing the Canyon itself was an obstacle I had to overcome, again and again. Each boulder, every bend, fallen tree, tricky slope, and jagged rock face—everything seemed like barriers standing between me and some imagined escape.
Trauma and external expectations made me turn to others for guidance, to seek validation in places outside of myself. Sometimes, I found myself walking beside the river, its quiet presence unnoticed, while other times, I was lost deep in the backcountry, wandering through the remotest areas. I stumbled over hills, through valleys, but I never seemed to arrive anywhere. It was exhausting. There had to be a way out, right?
Trauma and external expectations made me turn to others for guidance, to seek validation in places outside of myself. Sometimes, I found myself walking beside the river, its quiet presence unnoticed, while other times, I was lost deep in the backcountry, wandering through the remotest areas. I stumbled over hills, through valleys, but I never seemed to arrive anywhere. It was exhausting. There had to be a way out, right?
Do you know that feeling? The cliffs towering over you, sometimes seeming to close in, dark holes appearing out of nowhere, and you're just searching, desperate for an exit that never appears? If this sounds familiar, then you might be on a path like mine. I wandered for years, believing that if I could just escape the Canyon, everything would be better.
That belief persisted until four years ago when I found myself standing at a crossroads. I had to make a decision that felt impossible, and with each passing day, I felt myself slipping closer to depression. It was during the pandemic, but the decision I couldn't make had nothing to do with it. The weight of my own indecision was the real burden. In the quiet moments of that struggle, a new thought emerged: What if you asked someone for help? Someone who would ask the tough questions, the ones I'd been avoiding for so long, and wouldn't let me weasel through with "somehow."
That was my intuition speaking, and for the first time in a long time, I didn't dismiss it. Instead of overthinking, I acted. I wrote an honest email, admitting that I needed help—and fast—because depression was looming. Within a week, I had an appointment. Little did I know that trusting my intuition that day would change my entire life.
As I embarked on my healing journey, I realized that my intuition had always been there, whispering, waiting for me to listen. That moment opened the door to true healing—honest, real healing. And it all started when I trusted the river that had been flowing through my Canyon all along.
I came to understand that self-reliance is not the rugged individualism we've been sold—it's much deeper, more sacred. It's about trusting that river within, knowing that you possess everything you need to navigate life's uncertainties. By learning to trust and follow my intuition, I discovered a new kind of strength—one that comes from within but isn't afraid to reach out when needed.
Now, as I continue to explore my Canyon, I do so with the confidence that I am guided by my intuition. The river, once overlooked, has become my compass, leading me not to escape the Canyon, but to navigate it with purpose and understanding. This is true self-reliance: trusting the wisdom that flows within us, even when the path ahead seems uncertain.
Intention: Self-Reliance
Self-reliance refers to an individual's ability to depend on their own capabilities, judgment, and inner strength to navigate life's challenges, make decisions, and fulfill their needs, rather than relying on external assistance or validation.
In Buddhism, the concept of atta-dipa (Pali), meaning "be a light unto yourself," reflects this idea. It emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for one's own spiritual journey and trusting in one's capacity for wisdom and discernment, as mentioned in the Mahaparinibbana Sutta.
Inspirations for Achieving Self-Reliance
Cultivate Inner Trust: Self-reliance begins by building trust in your own decisions. Engage in daily reflections or meditations to reconnect with your intuition. The more you rely on your own insights and validate your own experience, the stronger your inner compass becomes.
Set Boundaries: One way to enhance self-reliance is by practicing saying 'no' when external influences or demands do not align with your personal values or needs. This empowers you to act from a place of self-assuredness rather than obligation or fear of judgment.
Embrace Discomfort: Self-reliance involves stepping out of comfort zones. When faced with uncertainty, lean into discomfort as an opportunity to practice self-leadership. Each instance where you handle uncertainty reinforces your ability to rely on yourself in the future.
Engage in Problem-Solving: When encountering problems, instead of immediately seeking external solutions, take a moment to explore how you might resolve the issue with the tools and knowledge you already possess. Over time, this process sharpens critical thinking and increases self-trust.
Reduce Dependency on External Validation: Self-reliance grows stronger as we lessen our need for validation from others. Acknowledge your own accomplishments and celebrate your successes privately, ensuring that your worth is not tied to external recognition.
Systemic Question
In what areas of my life am I overly dependent on external validation, and how can I shift towards trusting my inner wisdom to guide me more confidently?
Hint: Consider reflecting on situations where you frequently seek approval or reassurance from others. Identify these patterns and explore ways to build self-trust by acknowledging your own achievements and making decisions based on your values and beliefs.
Affirmation: I Am Guided by My Intuition
I trust my intuition, the river flowing through the depths of my Canyon. Whether I see its shimmering surface, hear its gentle currents, or raft along its waters, I know it is always there—steady, reliable, and endlessly trustworthy. My intuition, like the sky stretching above my Canyon, is boundless and intrinsically ethical, offering me unconditional love and clarity at every turn.
With each mindful moment, I align with this flow, allowing outdated beliefs and habits to dissolve, nourishing new growth within. I am not separate from my intuition but intricately woven into its rhythm, embodying its potential and wisdom as I move forward.
In this present moment, I open myself to the river’s guidance, knowing it will lead me on my path, even through the unseen twists and turns of life. My worth is not measured by the world’s standards, but by how I remain loyal to the authentic flow of my Canyon, embracing both its depths and expanses with grace.
As I continue this journey, I honor the river that sustains me, trusting in its cycles of ebb and flow. With dedication, I move toward the future meant for me, guided by the unshakable wisdom of my intuition, as it carries me through life's ever-changing landscape.
I am the universe experiencing itself, deeply connected to this vast, flowing river within—grateful for its endless love, guidance, and the freedom it grants me as I journey through the Canyon of my soul.
Essence: Trusting and aligning with one's intuition leads to personal growth and authenticity.
Systemic Questions
Reflective Question:
How does trusting your intuition change the way you approach daily decisions and challenges?
Hint: Think about moments when you followed your gut feeling and the outcomes of those decisions.
Future-Oriented Question:
What steps can you take to deepen your connection with your intuition and ensure it guides you through life's twists and turns?
Hint: Consider practices like embodiment practices, journaling, or a mountain or body scan meditation that might help you tune into your inner voice.
Here’s what I’m learning as I walk this path: The Canyon was never my enemy. The boulders and obstacles were never barriers to be overcome but lessons waiting to be understood. And the river—my intuition—was always there, gently guiding me, even when I couldn't see it. The healing that followed wasn’t just about finding my way through; it was about getting intimate with the Canyon, embracing it, and trusting the journey within.
Healing isn’t something we achieve by escaping; it’s something we allow by getting closer, softer, and more open to the terrain of our own soul. The Canyon will always be there, but so will the river—and the river always knows the way.
What if, today, you chose to listen to that quiet voice within? What would change if you trusted your intuition to guide you, not just out, but through—and beyond?
Until next time, Lionies,
With love, Jay 🦁
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